And tonight proved it more than ever!

Tonight DCM and I met dad and his friend, LB, for dinner with a dear family friend, SF, and her family. SF grew up with my mom, found out tonight they knew each other since they were about twelve. My mom was pregnant with me when SF got married, does that give you a better idea?

I’ve told you I know I look like my mom, started seeing it about 11 or 13 years ago when I looked up from washing my hands and there she was staring at me. Every year I look a little more like her and sound like her too, not the same accent, but the same laugh, well, up to the point I start laughing so hard I’m snorting!

I started dying my hair red consistently about thirteen years ago, I just got tired of being a brunette, plain and simple. At first, I was getting it professionally done, streaks, all sorts of things, then it wasn’t something I was spending money on, so I started dying it myself, this is not a secret, I’m pretty sure I’ve told you before, No 42 by L’Oreal and damn proud of it! Even do my eyebrows, lends to the believability! That’s my story and I’m sticking to it!

My mom had fire red almost orange hair when she was younger and as she got older, and it was long, I mean really long. When I was a baby, I used to grab it and get tangled in it, so she cut it, sorry mommy and as she got older, it started to turn brown. Then…she started dying it and when I say dyed her hair, we’re talking red, magenta, burgendy, nothing too crazy, but very noticeable. The funny thing is, she used to question me about my hair! Her carpool would look at her and say, “really?”

When my hair is short and styled a certain way, I look even more like her and I realized it when I was getting ready to go to dinner, but it was a real shock to SF, she gasped, covered her mouth and didn’t know what to say. She couldn’t believe it, the color, the cut, the style, the laugh, it took her a few minutes to take it all in, well, take me in, I guess I should say.

It’s funny, depending on the way I look at the camera, a different person stares back. One way, it’s me another way it’s my mom. I’ve posted pictures on Facebook, might have to do another with this haircut and find one of my mom, spooky. (Brings to mind the expression “Spitting Image”, which in and of itself will be a blog post, just giving you a heads up.)

It’s a mixed bag or blessing. Some days, when I look in the mirror, I want to see me looking back, no one else and it’s frustrating that I don’t see me or I should say just me, and other days, it’s like she’s with me and that’s comforting.

What a day!

I had something to do earlier in the morning, tell you about it later, then therapy, I can feel things moving more turns out it means things are getting better, wahoo!

Home again to clean and get ready for the crowd for poker and as I’m moving things, I looked at LB’s costume thinking I need to make the mask for the costume, doh de doh…oh crap! We’re heading out very soon! So, after I finished cleaning, the apartment looks so good after it’s straightened out, it’s funny, it doesn’t get that messy, but you can tell when it’s straightened, nice.

DCM set up the table last night, we put out the chips, ready to go. I put out the chairs and then sat down and made the mask for Swiper, looks good, right?

whew!

DCM got home, we decided to just have pizza, so I called Little Caesars, “Pizza, Pizza” , $5 carry out, the college students friend! We left to go pick up the pizzas, 9 miles away, took us about 30 minutes, apparently, there was traffic…am I in Atlanta? Made it home just in time for GW to show up, still had beer left in the fridge from last month, score!

Next, EL, AT and EA showed up, a few people had to back out, their loss, we played for winner take all. I held my own, I was third out, but that was about an hour and a half in, not too shabby. I played it a lot safer, I had really crappy cards! It came down to DCM, EA and GW, then it was EA and GW, it was not and heavy and intense, too rich for me! They finally decided to split the pot, not bad, $60 each, I’d take it!

Bottom line, we had a blast, we had fun playing and laughed a lot, I did a lot of snorting, can’t beat that!

Who’s joining us next month?

Spam is not a good thing, there I said it, whew, I know people love it, but it’s bad, just bad!

Spam started out to just represent a food, I won’t say food group, maybe food like substance. Either way, not for me, I’m a veg head! But for those who still love it, have at it! There are recipes galore for you to enjoy and if you have a gmail account, you have probably seen the links in your junk folder for spam recipes, right next to delete all messages.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spam_(food)

Next, we have the electronic version of spam, which is what I will be waxing on tonight. Electronic spam, or junk email, used to be we only got junk in our mailboxes, fliers, now, it’s virtual…whoopie, well, the one good thing, you just hit delete and it’s gone, you didn’t have to kill a tree.

But it’s still a bad thing…how about the “real email” that accidentally gets sent to your junk/spam folder? I learned the hard way to go through or at least look at every single email/subject and recipient to be sure that I don’t delete something important, I’ve gotten emails from recruiters there, oh brother! Then I get spam in my actual inbox, fun.

Ooh, I may have an inheritance of a bajillion/gazillion/umajillian dollars! All I have to do is write back to my cousin/long lost royal relation and send them my account number, sure thing! There’s a part of me that always wanted to open a dummy bank account and send them that, they won’t get anything, well, I could send them my actual account, no difference, ha ha. The sad part is that there are so many people who get sucked into the scam, especially the elderly, used to be they would call on the phone, now just email.

Oh, I can enlarge my hm..hm…wow, who knew? I don’t even have one of those, but thanks for the offer! Hot Asian girls? Wow! Married but looking? Wow! Enlarge this, extend that, stay …longer. There’s even a “F$*kbook”! Ooh, hurry, where do I sign? “Baby, I saw you across the room, don’t you remember?” Who falls for this crap?

My mom was a teacher and if you knew her this story will crack…you…up? You couldn’t wear shorts in her classroom, she had sweatpants in the locker if you needed them. You didn’t cut her class, she would track you down, skip school? She would call your parents! When I subbed for her one day, they walked in the room and said “You’re Mrs. X’s daughter, we’re stayin!” She was great and her students and their parents loved her. She didn’t take crap or stand for it.

We didn’t cuss in my house, my parents didn’t use bad language, one time, I closed a car door on my foot, I asked if I could use an expletive. A little background for you.

She got a computer in her classroom one day, this is years ago, AOL was still the you know what. Well, she enjoyed the PC, but was frustrated with some things and she go a lot of spam and one day at the table she says (mind you, my sister and I were grown at this point) “You’ll never guess now much p&$$@ I want to…” (Hint, it’s another word for kitty), I think we just about fell out of our chairs!

The funnier part? She got an email from the IT department at her school. “You have been flagged for a high volume of inappropriate emails! My mom! Imagine! We laughed a lot at that one!

Now, we all laugh at the ridiculous emails we get in our spam folders, but they can sometimes be dangerous, aside from scamming people, there are viruses that get sent out and can do horrible things to your PC, what’s the point? I know it’s challenge for some people, hackers love a good challenge, well, go challenge yourself doing something productive.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spam_(electronic)

Rant done. I’m sure there is more that I can say but I think we’re good. I will end by saying there is only one form of spam I like and it was in a song created by the geniuses that are Monty Python and I leave you with them here…enjoy your SPAM, I know I do!

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=cFrtpT1mKy8

Might be the greatest thing since sliced bread!

I remember when DVR (Digital Video Recording) first came out years ago, I thought it was ah..ah..ah..awesome! Imagine, recording something, then fast forwarding through the commercials, wow!

Then not having cable, I wasn’t watching TV at all and when I would go to a hotel, I would have to watch commercials, heaven forbid!
Now that I have cable again, it’s nice to have DVR again because watching commercials stinks!

The other great thing about DVR is being able to record things and watch them at your leisure, it’s a little like Netflix, you can record two things at a time, but the bad thing is that you can’t record two things and watch a third, so you have to watch something that was previously recorded. But as I said before, you can record until your hearts content and watch again and again, but even though it’s record as much as you want, there is a limit and it will tell you when you’re close to 100%, then you will have to delete to make room.

Right now, we’re at 47%, it too bad. It’s hard, I have an amazing movie collection, but a lot of it is still in Atlanta, CKM is “holding” it for me, so, when a movie I love comes on TV, I will record it and watch it over and over and over, well, at least until we run out of room.

Ah…DVR makes me happy…it’s the little things in life. (I’m going to pretend my life has more meaning, ha ha)

My Chuck Taylor Converse All Star Family!

(Ha, you thought I was going to post pictures of all the people you read about!)

I mentioned the other day I would introduce you to my collection of Converse and today is your lucky day!

Here is the whole gang:

They even have their own basket in my closet!

I even have a key chain that I got at the Converse outlet in Orlando! (The Star emblem fell off, so sad)

Let’s start backwards. The black pair were my very first pair of Converse, they are low top and wonderfully full of holes, as they should be after years of wear, tear and love. I purchased these with my own money, my mom refused to buy them for me “I’m not paying good money for canvas!” So I pulled out my own $10, yes, I said ten dollars! so not the case today!

At the time I may have disagreed with my mom, I was a teenager of course, but I agree with her now! (How much would she love that I am saying she was right!) I refuse to pay the $35-$75+ they want for these sneakers. To date, I have not paid more than about $24 for a pair, except for one, which you will see and, knowing me, understand!

The next pair were blue high tops, I got them junior year in high school, see how loved they are? blue and red tracing on the trim, holes you can’t see and a flower I stitched. I still wear them on occasion.

Next pair I got in college were maroon low top, I wore these for everything in college, including doing carpentry work for the theater. There is paint and glue and sawdust, the dark spots are glue, water and brown paint mixed together for the set of Man of La Mancha. I actually wore then last night when we were throwing clay, can’t get my others coved in clay!

The next set include four pairs I found at Marshall’s for $19.99! each when I got back from Paris. When I was there, everyone and I mean everyone was wearing Chuck Taylor’s and I was nostalgic. I went to lunch with some friends when I got back, CKM, CA and LW and after lunch, LW and I went shopping, well I actually was accompanying LW who was looking for clothes based on her time with Max, the Color Specialist, he told her what worked for her and he was spot on and she took it all to heart, it works for her. As we were walking through the shoe section, I saw Converse, Converse, Converse!

The pink pair are actually Jack Purcell, part of the Converse line. Check out the ones with the cats, look at the inside of the sneaker, there’s a black cat with red eyes and see the one on the side!

The next pair I found was at TJ Maxx for $12! They’re not my favorites, but I like them and for a while, they were what I wore when I rode my motorcycle, they are hi tops, lace up and really stiff fabric, and until I found some decent motorcycle boots, they worked well.

Next are my XX HI Tops! I la la la love these! They were BIG time on sale! $75 marked down to $29! How could I resist? I got the raspberry ones thinking I had ordered red ones, but is realized the red were a bit too red and I have more to wear with the raspberry ones, I love them! Next I found the white ones. My goal was to have all the kids in my life sign them, at the moment, not all of them can write their names, but I will make it happen someday! Apparently, I need to get another pair because these are all painted! I have worn them to two different colorful races (The Color Run and The Neon Splash Dash), I might actually have them still sign or just keep wearing these to more races and get another pair for the kids, hmm…decisions decisions (another pair? yeah, that’ll be a tough one!)

My newest pair are the ones I told you about the other day when I told you about The Hot Chocolate 5k, turns out they’re not full chocolate color, more grey/chocolate with blue trim and pink and blue elastic sparkly laces, never had these kind of laces, so it’s a learning experience. It was convenient for getting my foot in with the new brace on and…my smart feet!

My last and final (really? Nah, there will be more, I can feel it) pair to tell you about are the pair I paid $35 for and my most special and sparkly Dorothy Ruby Sneakers! I la la la love these kicks! See how they sparkle? As you may remember, red is my favorite color and these are my red converse! I love wearing them to sporting events, they make me feel special and sparkly! Do you love them?!

I think there is only one person who might rival my collection, JO, who DCM and I used to work with, has a great collection himself. See what we wore to work one day, not planned! (we each had this as our profile picture on Facebook).

Check out their website to see all that they offer (sizes, colors, low top, hi top, xx hi top, endless possibilities!)
http://www.converse.com