Peaches Prattlings











{August 17, 2013}   Customer Service…What happened?

That is my serious question…what has happened to customer service?

There was a time that people enjoyed their jobs and even if they didn’t, the customer never knew. I have always said, if you don’t like your job, get another one…and please don’t take it out on me, it’s not my fault you have this job, it’s yours, make the most of it.

I work with customers every day and there are times I’m not happy, I might be in a bad mood, they may have pissed me off, but you/they would never know it, because I would never let them see it.
Enough on that rant.

I know I could probably go on for hours and so could you, but I’m not going to on the bad attitude, what I want to talk about next is attention to detail.

One of my jobs is as a writer, I write here on my blog, I don’t get paid for it (oh how I wish) and I know there have been typos, but professionally, I am a technical writer. I write process documents, procedures and training materials, I am incredibly detailed (which is way contradictory to my desk!) in my writing, which is one reason I am good at it and I get hired to do it (its also something most people don’t like to do, more work for me!).

In college, I majored in Communications, TV studio production. During one of my film classes, I was I charge of continuity, that thing in movies where you catch the things that could really trip a movie or TV show up. For example, you end the day shooting a scene, you come back to it the next day or even next week, I was the person who made sure the clothes were the same, the makeup the same, the bruises, etc. I paid attention to detail and even to this day, if I can watch a movie and not pick out flaws, it was really good.

I waited tables for a while, and I was good at it, people would wait to sit in my station because I listened, I paid attention to what they wanted and I even remembered the next time. There are times I have a really low tolerance for bad service, I will put up with a lot because I know how hard it is for a server. What gets me is when they don’t listen. When you start at any restaurant, you are given an order pad, hopefully, and it’s given to you for a reason, so you get the order right. Of course we are impressed when a server remembers our entire order or the entire table’s order, good for you, but I’m more impressed when the order is correct and the food is good.

I know some of my friends think I’m picky, there are times I am and there a times I want to try new things. I’m also a vegetarian with certain restrictions due to dietary issues, so I have to be careful of what I eat and how much. When I say I have dietary restrictions, I mean that if I eat something I shouldn’t I’m going to pay for it later (and sometimes it’s worth it!)

I like the flavor of foods, but I don’t like to be overwhelmed by certain things. I will order salads with the dressing on the side so I can moderate the amount I get, pasta with the sauce on the side, as long as the kitchen says they will do it, I try to order it that way. Why is it so hard to get what I asked for?

Case in point…I do not like ice in my water, I ALWAYS, I mean ALWAYS order my water with no ice and no lemon, how often do you think I get my water the way I want it? I have taken to ordering my water naked, (no ice, no lemon) that seems to work (95% of the time) feel free to borrow it!

The other day at breakfast, I ordered my omelet with the hollandaise sauce on the side, no dice, and it totally overpowered the meal. At dinner the other night, I ordered Caesar salad with the dressing on the side, guess what…

Last night, we went down to Pearl Street in Boulder and if you’ve been there, you know how charming it is, lots of shops and restaurants, some galleries, pubs, several blocks, lots of street performers, artists, magicians, musicians, even a string quartet! A really pleasant place!

I ordered Caesar salad with the dressing on the side and no anchovy on top. I know…I am a vegetarian and there is anchovy in the dressing…as I gave up fish about 8 years ago, I am ok on occasion, eating fish, if I’m in the mood, or if it’s in the dressing. I got the salad with a great big anchovy (relatively speaking as anchovies are not that big!) which led to a good portion of the salad being fishy from the oil. (I couldn’t finish the salad, so I got it to go, guess what they forgot to pack with the salad!) Then I ordered gnocchi with a sauce from another pasta dish, I get my food and it was good, the sauce was very tasty and the vegetables I wanted were in it and very good, I couldn’t finish it, so I got it to go.

Here’s where you are free to laugh at me because I did and I didn’t get mad until today when I was talking to CKM and realized that I didn’t get gnocchi, I got the other pasta! Yes, I had forgotten what I ordered by the time it arrived, but that is not the point. I made a change to my order and it was not followed as I ordered it, I think I was so annoyed by the anchovy I lost track.

Whenever my order is wrong, I always look at DCM and ask…didn’t I say this…didn’t I order that? Yes I did.

I apologize if my making changes is frustrating, but you are in the customer service business and if it’s not possible, please tell me. All I ask is that you place the order that I asked for and don’t try to impress me by not writing it down, get it right, from my experience, tips are bigger when you get the order right!

Thank you for letting me rant! (And if there is a typo…sorry!)



{August 15, 2013}   Reality Swapping Shows

It was hard to title this one.

There are two shows that I am focusing on: Trading Spaces and Wife Swap.

With any reality, you are volunteering to be put on display, on tv for the world to see. You’ve got so many choices, Real Housewives [of the universe], this famous family, that now famous family, we have a trillion children, survival of the nitwits, lets all live in a house together; fix your looks, clean house, let’s dance, get fitted, get married, win tiaras, call ducks, AMISH MAFIA? Whatever your weakness or passion, I am sure there is a reality show for you!

Ok, so I might be a bit harsh and if you are a fan of those shows, I apologize, no offense intended, I may have talked to you about some of the reality shows I’ve watched, especially while traveling, guilty pleasure.

So, back to Trading Spaces and Wife Swap. Trading Spaces isn’t on anymore, I believe, but when it was, I LOVED it! The premise was two family swapped houses, worked with a decorator to redecorate one room in the other house, a lot of times it was friends, but many times, it was just random families that were chosen. During the swap, there might be some fear of what’s happening back at their house, but the excitement really came during the big reveal. Some of the couples wouldn’t like what was done and would pitch a fit!

You agreed to be on the show, you agreed to let people into your home, take a room and redecorate it. Even if it’s not what you imagined or wanted or love, be a good sport about it, be gracious and after the show, take some time to get used to it. You can always change it back or to something you want.

And…Wife Swap. Two wives swap lives/families for 2 weeks. The first week, they live the life of the person they are replacing, no matter what. The second week, there is a rule change and the family has to do what the wife says [they tried Husband/Dad swap at one point, never took off]. There are some interesting swaps: Religious/Rocker, Clean Freak/Slob, Disciplined/Carefree, Goth/Hockey Mom, just to give you a few examples.

When the show first started, at the end, the wives would award money to the family they are leaving along with instructions for how the other family should use it.

Both families agreed to be a part of the show, follow the rules and do whatever the new wife wants for the second week, after she has been exactly what their wife/mother is in their daily life for the first week.

During the show, it never fails, during the first week the wife/mom has trouble living the life as she is instructed by her counterpart, but 95% of them give it a real try and the second week, when there is a rule change, the family inevitably is resistant, its a toss up who is worse, the kids or the dads.

Just like Trading Spaces, you agreed to be on this show, to participate in the true spirit of the event, give it 100% to learn something about other people, be tolerant and maybe learn something about themselves. There might be lessons learned, new appreciation for your wife/mom, how you are living your life and maybe how much is taken for granted. Sometimes lives are improved, weeks after the show they might be realized, but during the two weeks and the meetup after [when the husbands and wives are reunited] it doesn’t seem like it.

You’re on national television, act like a human being and an adult [if you are of adult age], don’t show your arse, unless that was your intention the entire time. I know it’s entertainment, but c’mon!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 



{August 15, 2013}   Cute and Amazing Kids

I’m always amazed at what kids are capable of.

I’m sure you’ve figured out that I am über proud of all my nieces, nephews and grandkids, the ones I am related to and the ones I love dearly and their parents and I are close and when they see me, “Go see Auntie J”, they have granted me the honorary title of aunt, I couldn’t be prouder.

So, here I have to brag a little… (You know I’ll brag about them and others in future posts, stay tuned!)

EJS is starting first grade in a few weeks and so creative, give her a box and watch her make magic! MGS is precocious and smart and can figure things out easily (she showed me how to play Temple Run!).
Miss A is holding a cup on her own and taking the stairs like a champ.
KK is a championship softball player, her sisters, J and K are two of the fastest swimmers in Atlanta!
LB sings and dances like a primary ballerina and is learning how to wink.
JS was fantastic during his Bar Mitzvah, his sister, S, is a star on the stage, her little brothers are creative and fun.

Back to kids amazing me…
People are always posting amazing things their kids can do on Facebook and today, there was one that tripped me out completely, a baby, 20 month Ella, singing her heart out to Elvis!
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LuxQtvzA_cg

Of course, once you go to YouTube to watch the video there are a trillion more to check out and 3 hours later, you’re got sure where the time went!

Enjoy!



{August 13, 2013}   Medical update

So first…as I told you before, I don’t have carpel or cubital tunnel syndrome! Wahoo! Wait, s what do I have?

What I have, I had to write to down, is Thoracic Outlet Syndrome, TOS, for short. Wahoo, it has a name (there was a Golden Girls episode like that, “at least it had a name!”), but what does it mean?

Thoracic outlet syndrome is a rare condition that involves pain in the neck and shoulder, numbness and tingling of the fingers, and a weak grip. The thoracic outlet is the area between the rib cage and collar bone.
(See, told you I was special!) (it’s ok GES, I have a real pain in the neck, it’s not just you!)
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/thoracic-outlet-syndrome/DS00800

So, I drive 45 minutes to go see the doctor who did the EMG because Dr. S. said that since it wasn’t cubital or carpel tunnel, there was nothing more he could do for me (I hope you remember that discussion). After my 45 minute drive, I get in to an exam room pretty quickly and about 10 minutes later (I studied the posters of the body thoroughly), Dr. R. comes in and after pleasantries, he actually asks “Was I supposed to see you again?” Really?

I said yes because Dr. S. suggested I see you since it wasn’t cubital or carpel tunnel. He agreed, especially since it was no longer an issue for a surgeon. Now we’re on the same page, the doctor and I and after that, a successful visit going forward.

Now that we know what’s wrong, it’s a muscle issue instead of a nerve issue (and still workers comp), he decided I would need physical therapy, he left to get me a list of places near me that I could contact for PT (really, I drove all the way in so he could tell me I need therapy and then I leave?)

I saw Dr. S first June 24, EMG with Dr. R scheduled on July 12, then it wasn’t until July 29th that I got a follow up with Dr. S, couldn’t get an appointment with Dr. R until today. I get that schedules at tough, but here it is almost two months later and I’m still in pain and would like to start feeling better.

Dr. R is a very nice person, he remembered me and what I did, we talked about work and posture and what would be included in the PT. Twenty minutes later, list of PT locations in hand and I am back in the car to drive an hour home (traffic). Did I really have to go in for him to tell me I needed PT?

I’ll keep you posted on the PT and my progress, thanks for keeping up with me and worrying.

Ok, I know this was a bit of a rant on top of an update on my “condition”, thanks for listening.



{August 11, 2013}   TANG

It’s the drink of astronauts!

Ever since I was a kid, I have loved to drink Tang. It wasn’t something that my parents had in the house all the time, but when we had it, I loved it.

As an “adult” I have bought Tang from time to time. It was good when you an get a smaller tub, then it doesn’t go bad, and by bad I just mean that it gets moisture trapped in it and then it gets hard and solid, hard to get back to powder.

Even I have to admit, Tang can be too sweet sometimes. (What? Did I just say that out loud?)

The last few weeks I’ve been wanting some Tang, but I always forget when I go to the grocery store and then I want it. Today, we were at the grocery store and as we were leaving, I remembered! We went back to the juice aisle, I got some Tang!

As soon as we got home, unloaded the groceries, I made a bottle of sweet and refreshing Tang…ahhh, a mechiah!

Then I made some later, not as refreshing, still good, but way to sweet! But that first drink, hit the spot, made me happy and isn’t that what it’s all about?



{August 6, 2013}   Goodbye, work, travel, delays

The day started with my sister waking me to see if I wanted to say goodbye to the girls, what do you think?

I dragged myself out of bed, brushed my teeth, (I thought that would be best for everyone) ran downstairs to say goodbye to my girls. Never gets easier, but knowing I’ll be seeing them sooner than later helps. MG wanted to know where I was going and why I wouldn’t be there when she got home from school, then she wanted to know when she would see me again, I told her as soon as I could. My favorite question at that point…”how many minutes?” How could you not love that?

EJ let me kiss her on the cheek and forehead, didn’t look up, I’m kind of used to that, she doesn’t like it when I leave so if she doesn’t look at me, it’s not real and I’m ok with that, feels good, to be honest. And I’ll see them soon enough during FaceTime, I’m not worried, ah technology!

They left and I checked my email, then took a quick shower and GES and I got down to work. There was a call and reports and emails and spreadsheets, oh my! AS, my sister’s sister-in-law (did you get all that?) came over to help out, it was nice to see her, since we missed each other Sunday when they left. She is a great cook!

About 3:15, we headed out to the train, I had a conference call at 3:30, I gave my sister one of the headphones and we listened together, that was interesting. It went well, I got on the train and headed to South Station, got on the Silver Line bus to the airport, which hit traffic, fun. I was, however, early enough that I could get something to eat, a Fuddrucker’s veggie burger, yum! I need to find out if there is a Fudd’s in Colorado.

Boarded the plane about 6:40 for the flight that was supposed to leave at 6:45, hmm…we finally took off at 7:30, at least that’s what I think the time was. Then…let’s just say, I watched the last half of one movie and another full movie and possibly could have watched part of another one. We were supposed to land in Minneapolis about 8 something, after circle for what I heard was an hour, we landed about 10:20, 10 minutes before we were supposed to land in Denver, and 45 minutes after we were supposed to take off, go figure.

I did sit next to a very nice woman and we chatted for a bit on the way, we had a seat open between us, that was nice, we could share a tray table and sort of spread out. As we were coming in for a landing, the woman to my right asked me what I had been watching. It was the original “Yours, Mine & Ours” starring Lucille Ball and Henry Fonda. That took us down the road of classic movies and actors and favorites and sharing, the woman in the seat ahead of her joined in. I always love those conversations, you know, about movies, imagine that! (I’ll give you a review of that movie another time).

The good news is, all flights were delayed coming in, so my flight was probably delayed. When I got off the flight, the board said my flight was leaving at 11:20, as of about five minutes ago, we were told we might leave at 11:50, fingers crossed.

I was lucky to find an open charging port, my phone was almost dead, you know…DED dead! My iPad is at 39% and the flight is about 2 hours, lets hope for the best. I am going to post now and tomorrow I’ll let you know if and when I got out of Minneapolis!



{August 2, 2013}   Time zone consideration

Ok, so…my original topic for tonight won’t work because it’s tied into something else and I need to finish it before I can share, so, I promise, when it’s finished, I’ll share.

Tonight, I want to talk to you about time zones and consideration of those time zones. I’m sure wherever you live, you believe the world revolves around you and your time zone. Hey, when I was a kid, growing up on Staten Island in New York, I thought everyone had to know that there were five boroughs that make up New York City and they are…? (Staten Island, Brooklyn, Queens, The Bronx and Manhattan, and now you know. Did you know that Staten Island and Manhattan are the only two true islands? Little bit of trivia for ya)

I have to tell you, and I think you’ll laugh about this. I went and looked at the title of this post and it was originally time zen!

So, back to my point about time zones, being in the eastern time zone, I looked at everything in that zone, EST, I knew that Pacific time was three hours behind, Paris, France is six hours ahead and Hawaii is five hours behind. I was always a bit wonky on central and mountain time. I know that Central is one hour behind and now, because I live in Mountain Time, it’s two hours behind eastern. See, I can be taught!

Moving to Colorado and MT has been an adjustment, for everyone, people back east have to remember not to call me at 9am on a Saturday, and who’s going to do that anyway! because its only 7am for me and I need to remember that when it’s only 9pm in Colorado, it’s 11pm back east! It’s confusing when watching some shows, things that come on at 9pm eastern are coming on at 7pm mountain, so prime time TV starts a little early. How about the night time talk shows, watching David Letterman, Jay Leno or Conan O’Brian at 10pm is a little unsettling! (Good thing I don’t watch them!)

I remember when DCM moved and didn’t always remember the time difference, so when he would text me at 11pm MT to say goodnight, it didn’t translate that it was 1am EST for me! Sometimes I had already fallen asleep! Ok, who are we kidding, not very often, but it happened!

One of the cool things I did, sort of, I think I’ve told you, is I have kept my east coast hours, 9-5pm eastern is 7-3pm mountain, so that means…I get up at 6am to do a few miles, then start my day at 7am for calls, etc. but then…at 3pm, it’s bathing suit time (sometimes I might go for a walk/run, mostly when I don’t seem to wake up at 6 with the alarm) down to the pool for a few hours of sun, reading and usually a nap, very underrated activity! until DCM gets home and we get dinner started. Not too shabby!

Now, I don’t mind having calls at 9am eastern, that’s 7am my time, I’m up and ready to go, but 6:30am mountain? That’s not fair. So this morning, I got up with my alarm at 6, well, ok, 6:15, the snooze button is too convenient and got on a call at 6:30am, I was not exactly my normal bubbly self, sorry.

I know I’m very aware of other people’s time zones when I schedule calls, why can’t other people be so observant?

I need a nap!



{July 31, 2013}   Duck Dynasty

I tried people, I really tried.

One of the good and bad things about moving in with DCM is that we have cable all the time, so I get to see some TV shows I have missed (Criminal Minds, Leverage), basically the shows I can’t find on Netflix, Hulu or online and a lot of movies, which was what I was doing before.

So, here comes reality TV, why? I still don’t get giving rich people money so we can watch them be obnoxious, vile, rich, useless. You’ve got people thrown together in a house, summer camp, n a bridge, would they do half of that stuff if weren’t watching?

And then there is the flip side, there’s the exploitation of toddlers, white trash and rednecks, when did watching the type of people you would find on “the people of Walmart” live become big business?

We as a society become obsessed with certain shows, I’ll admit, there was a time that CKM and I were addicted to Hoarders, we’d sit on the phone watching in our respective homes, “did you see that?” “OMG!”

My mom! My mom, for those of you who knew her, might be shocked by this, but she la la la loved The Osbornes! That cracked me up!

I think I told you that one of the things I enjoyed about traveling for work was staying in hotels and having cable and being able to flip channels. Now, please keep in mind, on my last contract, I wasn’t in any one city more than two nights, so there wasn’t a lot of sight seeing to be done, sometimes I got to my hotel in enough time to grab some food and sac out for an hour or two before crashing, so TV it was, a good way to wind down and decompress.

There is always a new reality show that people talk about and right now, it’s Duck Dynasty, a family in the Louisiana bayou, staying true to their roots while building their empire of duck calls and decoys, Duck Commander. We got through about 15 minutes, it was the very first episode and there were a few funny moments, sort of, and then they lost me when the guys went out to find frogs because the momma was going to be filming a cooking show the next day. Um, not something I can handle, I once saw frogs legs at a grocery store and couldn’t eat for three days!

I just don’t think I can do it, I hear so many people talking about it, they talk about how funny it is, it’s just not for me. I have heard that the women are ga-ga for their guys, they don’t have a lot of the same drama as the “rich people” reality shows, something to be said for that.

But when I watch some of these reality shows, I feel like my I.Q. drops a lot, so I think I will be skipping the majority of these shows and leave them to everyone else who is fascinated by them. Just like they say there is someone for everyone, there is an audience for the reality show market and more power to ’em!

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2229907/?ref_=sr_1



Ok, so today is going to be a serious, “Really?” kind of post, so bear with me. But there should be a big belly laugh towards the end.

Today started like any other Monday, get up, started working, entering my time, got everything done and then headed out to my follow up appointment. This appointment was the follow up after the EMG, if you remember, that was the nerve test they did to see if I had carpel and/or cubital tunnel syndrome. I was hooked up to some stuff, they sent shocking signals to different parts of my arm, then the acupuncture needles, same test. The process was cool to watch and learn about, the feelings from the shocks, not so much!

Turns out, no carpel or cubital tunnel, wahoo! So, what’s next? Well, it turns out it’s something to do with my shoulders/neck, tension. Thorasic something? I’m so sorry, I’m having a moment, I left a voice mail to see if someone could tell me exactly what it is, I apologize.

The first available appointment with the original specialist, after the EMG on July 12th was today, July 29th., ok. Off I go, about 40/45 minutes in the car, get there, wait about 10 minutes to get into a room, then wait for about 25 minutes for them to get my records, what? I actually heard the nurse calling the other office, where I had the EMG performed, got transferred about 6 times, forget mispronouncing my last name, I’m used to that.

[As I was arriving to the doctor’s office, I got a call from the vet about my cat, Jymy, to see how he was feeling after his appointment last week. I said she was doing better, ha ha, yeah, happens all the time; I spelled her name that way for a reason]

So, after waiting about 25/30 minutes to see the doctor, he came in, this is the one I told you about before, didn’t have a lot of time, I’m sure he’s very good at what he does, just very busy. He spent approximately 6, maybe 10 minutes telling me he couldn’t do anything else for me, since it’s not carpel or cubital tunnel, it’s not his area of expertise, so he suggested I go back to the doctor I saw who did the EMG for further care…what?

So…I now get back into the car, get on the phone to call the other office for an appointment. After 10 minutes of “your call is important to us, please stay on the line” I was disconnected. I called back and finally spoke to someone almost 10 minutes later, I have my appointment for my shoulder issues a little over 2 weeks from now, it’s a good thing I’m not in debilitating pain! It was only 3:30 and there was traffic, it felt like I was back in Atlanta, but unlike Atlanta, eventually the traffic cleared and it was smooth sailing home.

Let’s sum up…40/45 minutes there, 35/40 minute wait, 10 minutes with the doctor and 45 minutes home, Nope, not a waste, right? Good thing I don’t go anywhere during the day, it wasn’t a total waste of gas, especially since I’ve lived here almost 2 months and only filled up the tank in my car twice, not too shabby.

I realized I was a little hungry, so I thought I’d grab a quick bite at Del Taco. When I got to the intercom to order, since I had never been there, I asked what the rice and beans were cooked in. [I learned a tough lesson a while ago, I need to ask, just because it’s not a meat product, what the food is cooked in, once I asked if the beans on the menu were truly vegetarian, yes. When I got them, I asked if they were cooked in a meat stock, they taste like beef. The response, yes, but they’re vegetarian, not served with anything, yes, but they are cooked IN beef stock! that’s not vegetarian!] and her response to my question “In a pot” WHAT? “REALLY???”

In a pot???

That should have gotten a good belly laugh. I was so done!



{July 26, 2013}   More tomorrow

This doesn’t happen very often, but…I am too tired to write and I’m not sure what will end up in the posting if I continue.

I did do 4 miles today, ok, 3.98 and it felt great! For dinner, we had pasta; DCM had meatballs with his and I sautéed some spinach with butter and garlic, wow, it was awesome!

I’m off to dreamland and I will talk to you tomorrow!



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