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{May 16, 2013}   Auntie J! Auntie J!

One of my favorite sounds and sights in the world is to open the door and hear Auntie J! Auntie J! and see a six year old running up to you and jumping into your arms, twirl around with her and kiss her neck and cheek and hear “I missed you!” Sigh..

Then…the car door opens and her three year old sister screams Auntie J! Auntie J! runs towards me, jumps in my arms and giggles when you nuzzle her neck and of course, then zerbert the belly!

What a day! I got home from my amazing dinner about 11:00, started packing and had to decide, to sleep or not to sleep, my flight for Boston was leaving at 7:30am, yes, I hate myself, I booked a very early flight, saved me $100. So, I had to get up about 4:45, I laid down at 3:45, took a nap, and left the house at 5:30am. Fell asleep before takeoff, up when the drinks came, out just after and up for landing, perfect.

My sister GES met me at the train and I worked from her office, it was fun! We headed home about 4:00 to wait for my brother in law, AS and the girls. And here they come!

What a joy, what a treat, what a whirlwind! I don’t see them as often as I would like, every day would be awesome, but, I am a realist. I get to see them about 3-4 times a year in person, but, with modern technology, I get to see them a few times a month and I believe if it wasn’t for FaceTime, they wouldn’t know me or recognize as well as they do.

So, with the opportunities for FaceTime, we get to stay in touch, see each other virtually, and then when we see each other, the excitement is there tenfold, and trust me, not just for them!

MG turned three today and I got to be here for the celebration, where else would I be? Big party on Saturday and EJ’s dance recital in Sunday, I love being here for the big and little events, I am a very lucky girl! A little proud, maybe, just a little.



But my friends made it fun and easy, thank you!

Today was a day of laughter, almost tears, smiles, photos and goodbyes. It’s really coming together, every day gets a little closer to the day I leave the place I’ve called home for NINETEEN years! I left the day after Mother’s Day 1994 and I’ve been here ever since. I know, I know, you’re saying, it not possible, you’re only 25! Ha ha! Ok, those of you who don’t know me, could think I was 25, so thank you, but I’m happy being 41, besides, I don’t think 25 was great for me, so I’m good here.

I went into the office for our monthly Anniversary/Birthday celebration. It’s a group that you can join at work, we all contribute $15-20 for the year, someone hosts each month and we honor/celebrate all the birthdays and anniversaries with the company. Everyone takes turns hosting, I’ve done it a few times, it’s fun, thinking of themes and getting food and decorating accordingly. I volunteered for May, what? Well, I am leaving at the end of the month and I won’t be here to participate, so I thought, why not? I started stressing last night when I still didn’t have food until I realized what I would get and it worked out perfectly!

I got a cake from Publix, I had them out “Happy May Everything!”, some Neapolitan ice cream and a fruit salad, it was a hit! Who doesn’t like cake and ice cream

We also had our ladies lunch, that was fun, we went to The Rose & Crown Pub, quite tasty and the company was great! We caught up, we laughed, had a good time all around, I’m going to miss those lunches.

After work, I headed to Violette, a lovely French restaurant I had never been to, I enjoyed it immensely. A few weeks ago, CKM asked me about doing something with “the gang” before I left, I said absolutely and what’s the next step? She said nothing, just pick a date! I didn’t have to plan? Awesome, thank you!

She went through and emailed just about everyone who had been on one of my past emails! There was a great crowd, most of my favorite people, not all, it was kind of tough, being in the middle of the week, I’m heading out of town tomorrow, so this weekend was out.

I really appreciate everyone who came out. CTS, I’ve gotten to eat two meals with her in less than a month, I think that was a record. I was so touched she came out, it meant a lot. BG and JT drove together, it was great having them both there! Two of my closest friends, I met JT at BG’s house and CKM at one of JT’s Super Bowl parties, small world! I’ve known BG since 1999, when I started working for Harbinger, when I mentioned Harbinger, DL said she knew it! speaking of…DL and her husband, ML, were there. I’ve only known DL for a little over a year, but we’ve grown quite close and I value her friendship.

RS was there (she goes by B, but I can’t refer to her as BS, which she would probably laugh at, so she’s RS. She looked great I a vintage jacket a friend fond for her and she was giving up watching American Idol for me tonight, I was definitely flattered!

My dear sweet friend, MB came! We don’t get to see each other very often and we worked together about two years ago and she’s one of the few people I am still in contact with from that job and I don’t think it took us five minutes to become fast friends. You know how everyone says we’ll stay in touch…that doesn’t always happen, does it? MB is still with me, just like BG and I know DL will be too. Makes me happy.

SDL and Miss A were there, it would not have been a party without them, color coordinated and all! It’s not going to be easy leaving them. SDL and I will talk, email, send pictures and have a Skype or FaceTime date, when we reconnected all those years ago, it brought or friendship back I know we will never lose that, she’s one of my besties! How am I going to leave my munchkin? Right now, I get to see her just about every other week, sometimes more than others and now, even though FaceTime is great, it’s not in person. I will miss the hugs, the squeezes, the kisses, walking together, see her in person. I know they’ll visit and I’ll visit, but I can’t tickle her tummy to get that great laugh that of her through a piece of technology, as good as it is!

CKM was there, of course! She was so wonderful to set this dinner up and find a place she knew I would love, I’m such a Francophile! She got the best card, it was touching funny and just right, got everyone to sign it and make me laugh. As odd as this might sound, it feels like the scarecrow from the Wizard of Oz “I think I’m going to miss you most of all!” We talk almost every day, sometimes several times a day. We’ve even spent a few hours together and then talk on the way home! So knew we had so much to talk about! Who are we kidding?

Thank you to CKM for putting this evening together, thank you to my friends who were able to join us and thank you to the friends who wanted to come, but life got in the way, you were there in spirit and if you were wondering what that hysterical laughter and snorting was…yours truly!

I value each and every one of you and I am so honored to say I know you, let alone be lucky enough to call you a friend. Thank you for allowing me to be your friend, my life is truly richer for it.

http://violetterestaurant.com/



{May 14, 2013}   Happy and a little sad

It’s official! My house is “For Sale”!!! Ok, now someone come and buy it!

The realtors came today and looked at the house and were actually amazed that I got as far as I did! There is nitpicky stuff left to do, but for the most part the house is ready to be sold! I will take pictures very soon to show you.

They were amazed at how big my master bedroom is! (Yeah, without all that “stuff” all over the place!) I like it, it’s just kind of empty, nothing on the walls and the walls are off white, for someone who is artistic, this is a blank canvas, give me a paintbrush, wait don’t!

They helped me stage the living room while they were here, it looks nice and my friend, SDL’s artwork is displayed prominently! The office is done, CKM’s photography is featured there! Come one friends, who wants me to display their fabulous artwork?!

So, after a walk through, we went to lunch, a girl’s gotta eat! I’ve known this couple for quite a few years so it was nice to sit down and chat with them, very relaxed. We usually see each other at TS’ house for a party, so this was fun. The only time we talked real estate at lunch was when I inquired how business was, the rest of the time was, well, everything else!

We got back, talked price, less than we originally talked about, but there is a house up the street that’s bigger and for more money, so we’re not much less, just a few thousand (wow, I sound so…blasé about a few thousand!) and we talked about how low I’ll go on the price.

While N and I worked on the paperwork, thank goodness it was less than the refinance! BC trimmed the trees outside, now that’s what I call service!

I do have a backup plan! The property management company for the neighborhood works with agents who do rental property, so while I would rather sell the house, if it doesn’t, I am going to rent and I know the house/property will be well taken care of, they are a bit nuts, so as a landlady, I want that, what a contradiction! Keep your fingers crossed for me my friends!

I love finding out that people read my blog. This morning, MM texted to thank me for writing about the St Joseph statue! He couldn’t remember what it was called, happy to help! My dad called me this morning and said “guess who reads your blog? LD’s new daughter-in-law, TD!” That’s awesome, I’m flattered! He was talking about some of my exploits and she said she knew, so, TD, thanks for reading!

All good things so far, so here’s where the little sad comes in. I took Bella to her new human today. JS has always liked my cats and when I said I was looking for a home for Bella, he said I’ll take her, so, when he came over a few weeks ago, they met and seemed to get along, I think he fell hook line and sinker for her! She is hard to resist, especially when she sits next to you and puts her paw on your leg or hand, just a reminder that she is there and if you felt like petting her, you could.

So, I lured her into the carrier with treats, I know, bad mommy but I didn’t know how else to get her in there, when she saw the carrier come out, she headed for the hills, but she is such a sucker for a treat, I caved. As I was driving, I called DCM for reassurance I was doing the right thing. I know, I know, I have complained a out her doing her business in the dining room, but she really is a sweet cat and I really did try to make it work. I know she will be happy, no other cats around to bother her and I know my two will be happier, no competition.

It was still bittersweet. I kissed her goodby through some tears, made JS promise to send pictures and updates and headed home, calling CKM and KB to tell me I was doing the right thing, for everyone. I was calling more to let them know that she was with JS as they have listened to me kvetch about Bella more than once.

I know this is a good thing, I know this is a good thing..there’s no place like home, there’s no place like home.



{May 13, 2013}   My weekend Part II

So, I hope you didn’t fall asleep reading my post last night! I have to tell you, I had to stop blogging last night because I started dozing off as I was writing!

After the museum, I drove to JB’s house to meet CKM so we could go to the Electric Run, http://electricrun.com/atlanta/, at the Atlanta Motor Speedway. Luckily for me this was a 5k and we were going to walk it! Whew!

At JB’s house, they fed me, it was his son E’s birthday, yummy yummy yummy! After a while, we got dressed in our day glow funky outfits (we were the “Brightest Crayons in the Box”) and headed to the speedway. The race was capped at 10,000 participants, so there wouldn’t be too many people there.

We passed a bunch of people going to the race, you could tell, we were all glowing! Everyone gave each other thumbs up! When we got to the race, it was fun to see all the different ideas people had for this run. There were light up tutus, wheelchairs were decked out, grow ups, kids, everyone was definitely in the spirit of things! I’m excited because I registered for the Firefly 5k in July in Colorado!

There were no official start waves, they started a countdown every five minutes and we were off! There was music at the start, pumped through speakers throughout and at several stations. It was very cool, all the different lighting features along the way, umbrellas hanging from trees lit up, Chinese lanterns in the trees,all different color lights, even the water stations were cool, the cups were dayglo colors and they had these lit up tubes and when you added your cup, it created a great feature! There were tunnels with strobes and tunnels with bubbles. The course even took us onto the track! That was so much fun, and as close as I will possibly ever get to a racetrack!

The nice thing about the race was there was no pressure, just walk it at your leisure and finish when you finish. It started raining during the run, on and off, it wasn’t bad at all, luckily it wasn’t cold and we had ponchos if it got bad. After the finish was a big thumping after party, we both looked at each other “when was the last time you were at a night club?” Um…

We left after jumping and dancing for a bit, I dropped CKM off and headed home, but…I realized I was starving, so I stopped at Fellini’s for a slice and a Coke, it was heavenly! That gave me the little boost I needed to get home, it was a wee bit late when I got here. I knew I needed to blog quickly and then I passed out!

Sunday came and I amazingly enough slept in…when did sleeping until 9am become sleeping in? Oh well…I wished a few people of Happy Mothers Day, I got to talk to my sister, that was great! got a few hours packing done and then headed out to meet SDL, her sister DJL and Miss A for lunch. We went to Doc Chey’s in the Highland and had a great time, as always. I am so honored to be a part of their lives and that they let me celebrate in the big and little things in their lives means so much to me.

I posted a picture of myself, my mom, her mom and my sister, in honor of Mother’s Day and it still amazes people how much I look like my mom. People posted some wonderful things and memories about my mom, I was really touched. It was 19 years ago today, I left NYC for GA, the day after Mother’s Day, she had mixed feelings,happy for me in my new adventure, sad that I was going.

I will tell you sometime about my mom, she was quite the woman, just not today. It was nice seeing all the photos on Facebook of people and their moms and the wonderful things they had to say, some who’s moms have passed, and of course, it made me miss mine all the more.

And then, it made me a little sad, because for almost 12 years I was mom to a son and daughter (step mom, don’t want to confuse anyone too much) that I miss very much. They were 7 & 8 when I met them back in 1996! They were so little, cute and shorter than me! (That didn’t last that long). I realized that May 2008 was the last time I saw my daughter and August 2008 was the last time I saw my son. I understand that with divorce you lose your spouse, as you’re supposed to, and you might lose some friends, but the hard part is when you’re the step mom, you might lose the kids and that’s what really hurt.

I did hear from my daughter back when Hurricane Sandy hit NYC, she wanted to see how my family was doing, I was very touched. She also told me about herself, where she is and what she’s doing now and how I impacted her life and it was wonderful and made me feel great, I think I cried and bragged about it for a good week, sorry if anyone had to hear me go on and on! Unfortunately, that was the last I heard from her.

No matter what happened with their dad, I loved those two more than anything and every Nov 11 (boy child) and May 9 (girl child) I think about them on their birthdays and send them a birthday wish that who knows, maybe they feel in their heart,they may not know what it is, but it’s there.

Ok, maudlin is done.

I got home from lunch and mowed the lawn, apparently the dandelion fairy had made a stop at my house and her sack broke because my yard was a toddlers dream! All those pretty flowers for mommy! I felt much better! Sorry kids!

Speaking of fairies, I have been sending up requests to the packing fairy and she isn’t listening, I even offered cookies, no dice. BG tells me that she is trying to teach me a lesson, I have to much stuff! Gee thanks!

This is really happening! Uhaul is rented, the realtors are coming over tomorrow to sign contracts and put a sign in the yard. Maybe it’s time for a new St Joseph statue, the last one didn’t seem to work!
http://www.stjosephstatue.com/

I hope everyone had a great weekend! Now, it’s off to bed to dream about packing tape!



{May 12, 2013}   My weekend

As promised, my weekend. A tea tasting, two races, a museum, Mother’s Day lunch, and packing. The end.

Sorry, couldn’t resist, but now, here it is, my weekend, not sure if you’ll need a nap and or a tissue or maybe both.

Friday started out fine enough, until I lost ALL my files on my work PC, what? Several hours and cuss words later and a chat with my favorite IT guy at work, RJ, I had my files back, apparently my external hard drive wanted them, bad hard drive!

I managed to get a little packing done as well, then at 3:30, headed out to pick up our race packets for the Electric Run, race number 2 on Saturday. It wasn’t very crowded at all (OMG, Air Supply on the radio!) at packet pick up, but I had our entries and we were ready to go. In order for me to pick up CKM’s packet, she had to complete a release, I attached the link because it was really funny!

Click to access PACKET-RELEASE-FORM.pdf

Then I headed to meet CKM for the first activity of the weekend, a tea tasting at Zen Tea, it was quite enjoyable and highly recommended, by us. There were 6 of us, 3 sets of 2 women, we each got to select a pot of tea to have while we waited to start, we smelled about 6 before settling on White Christmas for CKM and Jasmine Rose for me (I have probably gotten those wrong and she will correct me!). Both were really good and they had lots of sugaring options: simple sugar, raw sugar, rock sugar, sugar water and honey. You know I was in heaven! We also had a glass of an iced tea, yes, I drank iced tea! Not going to make a habit of it, but it was good!

When everyone was settled and had their personal pot of tea, the lesson started. Tonight, we were doing white teas. I love white teas, I enjoy almost all teas, but I really enjoy white teas. Camomile is a good example of a white tea and PF Changs has one of my favorites, White Tangerine. We would get a lesson on the tea we were going to try, we would smell the leaves and then get a demitasse cup of the tea. You wouldn’t think that six teeny cups of tea would be filling, but you would be wrong! CKM was taking her time and laughing because at one point, she had about four cups in front of her and the thing about white teas, they looks so similar! Hard to tell what you’re having! We did agree, neither of us liked the lemongrass tea.

In the middle of the tasting, we were given a slice of chocolate cake with black cherry sorbet, you know what I ate…the sorbet was great! After the six cups, we got to choose one more pot, so we decided on a caramel and oh my! Tasted as good as it smelled!

http://www.ezentea.com/atlanta-tea-shop/atlanta-tea-room-house-chamblee-georgia

When we were done, we were hungry! We walked down to Vintage Pizza, I almost asked what the soup of the day was! What? We had a nice dinner and then walked back to our cars, still talking and then I realized, we were going to see each other the next day! Why are we still talking? I had to get to the hotel and it was almost 10 pm!

We parted company and I headed to Cartersville to crash for the night. If I haven’t already mentioned this, when a race is 1.5 hours or more away, I spend the night. I don’t mind driving here, I don’t feel like getting up before the sun to get to the race, so I spend the night. (I get my points, it’s a win-win!)

I the morning I drove to Dallas, Ga to meet BG and his brother AG for the Savage Race. Unfortunately, BG had surgery on his foot and wouldn’t be able to participate, and I knew AG would take off at the start, they are both “real”runners! I didn’t realize when I signed up it was 4-6 miles with obstacles!!! What? So…when someone told me it was 6 or 7 miles for the run, I felt better, because at one point I was thinking, I don’t think this thing is ever going to end!

It was tough because there was more running than anything else and it was mostly uphill, no thanks! I can tell you that my hamstrings are killing me and I thinking my glutes hate me! I said after I did the Spartan Run that I wouldn’t do another without real training, apparently I lied to myself!

This was a tough race, but not much tougher than any other hard core obstacle race. The slogan is “The Savage Run…A race built to kick your a$$! A least at this race, no one made you do burpees if you skipped one and everyone wasincredibly encouraging and helpful to each other, definitely a plus!

There were a few obstacles that I skipped and I slept just fine last night! BG asked if I would do this one again, I said not unless I really trained for it, I have very little upper body strength, need to work on that! But…the most important thing? I finished, I ran, I jumped, I climbed, I slid, I was shocked by electricity and I got muddy, I finished,that is what really matters, I have the tshirt and medal to prove it!
The best part? My knee didn’t hurt! I turned each ankle at some point and my elbows hurt,but other than that, I survived!

Home

Need a nap, a cup of coffee? Go for it, we’re not going anywhere for a while!

Next, I went to LA Fitness to take a shower, I got as much as I could off with a garden hose with really low water pressure. Very nice!

After the gym, I drove over to The High Museum of Art for the Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera exhibit. It was the last weekend, so I expected it to be crowded, it wasn’t too bad. There were a large number of Hispanic families with lots of kids, which was great to expose them to the art world.

If you’re not familiar with Frida Kahlo’s work, she is famous for her self portraits and one of the distinguishing things was her “uni-brow”.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frida_Kahlo
Frida Kahlo was married to Diego Rivera, it was a tumultuous relationship.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diego_Rivera
There was a quote from Frida on the wall, “I suffered two accidents in my life. One in which a streetcar knocked me down. The other accident was Diego.” That should tell you a lot!

After I left the museum, I called my dad. I told him I was a little unsettled, I had just been to see a Frida Kahlo/Diego Rivera exhibit, he asked one question, “why? You don’t like her!” True, I’m not a huge fan, but I do like Diego Rivers’s work.

The reasons I don’t like her work is that when I was 9, I was at her studio in Mexico and saw a painting that she did that freaked me out, gave me nightmares. This is a painting that shows her conflict between her Mexican and American sides, after you look at the link you’ll know why I had nightmares!
http://www.artchive.com/artchive/K/kahlo/two_fridas.jpg.html
I really thought I could get thorough it, but no, there were a few pieces I enjoyed and a few that I couldn’t stomach.
I made it through the exhibit and it was good to talk to my dad after, he knows how I feel!

Ok friends, I think it is time for me to pack it in and say goodnight. We’ll call this part one, I will finish my weekend telling tomorrow



Tonight CKM and I had a great time and I want to tell you about it, but something else came up that I thought I would address instead. I will talk about tonight maybe tomorrow. (Ponder that one for a while)

They seem to be coming out of the woodwork…About three weeks ago, I got a text from a guy I dated about 4 years ago, I’ve heard from him two or three times since we split up, but I was not expecting to hear from him again. I was on Facebook one night and he messaged me, we caught up for a while, it was nice chatting with him, we had been good friends while we were dating, I’m not going to go into why we didn’t make it, you’ll have to buy my book!

Turns out he got married over a year ago, we talked about that, I was happy for him. I admit, I was a bit hesitant when he first messaged, I don’t normally hear from guys I’m no longer involved with since they’ve moved on, unless they want to find out what my dating status is because they remember how good it was when it was good and now they’re single and think it would be nice to get together with me again. But there was a reason it didn’t work out.

He asked about me and I told him about DCM and how we are moving to Colorado together at the end of the month, the packing, how excited I am and some of the plans we have when we’re settled, like me getting a new bike and DCM getting one as well, taking lessons together, LS is a biker, so he could relate to that.

We’ve chatted a few times over the last few weeks, he’s needed some advice from “a woman”
(thanks for noticing), someone unbiased to the situation, and someone who’s opinion and advice he trusts. I do appreciate that people value my opinion.

So, over the past few weeks, we’ve chatted a few times, it has been nice and…on a few occasions he has reminded me of some of the things that lead to the end of the relationship, but I know him and I’m looking past those things because they don’t affect me in the same way, just reinforced what I thought before, if that makes sense.

Then tonight, I am out with CKM and I get a text from a number I don’t know “is this JSH number?”
(You noticed that? I was JSH when I was married). What? CKM said don’t respond, she had an odd text from someone in her past recently, it’s still stuck in her craw, mine too because there was no closure. I can’t help it, I wanted to know who it was! Don’t you?

I responded, “Depends on who this is”, DCM bust out laughing when I told him what I responded with! I have to tell you, one of my favorite things is to make him laugh! I get tickled when I get CKM to burst out laughing too!

So the response I get is J, well, isn’t that helpful, a first name, a nickname of sorts. No offense, but I know a few people and I know more than one J. I didn’t want to be rude and say J who? I thought I’d figure it out by some questions that I could ask. I asked how he was, thinking I would ask about work next, thinking the might help me to get somewhere. Now, CKM took a guess at who this was, I didn’t think so because he was using a nickname that I never associated with him and through the conversation, turns out she was right on the money!

I figured out who it was through his next text.

We dated very briefly, maybe three weeks tops, almost 5 years ago! I heard from him about a month after he “dropped me like a hot potato”, to sort of ask me what was wrong with him… it wasn’t me, it was him, I hate to say “the usual”, and not since then, I haven’t even thought about him in that long.

He said a few things along those lines, what was I thinking? I was an idiot, ok, whatever. DCM said he was fishing, I’m sure he’s right. There ended the conversation, will I hear from him again? Will I think about it? Nope, I’m happy and why do I need to think about things that don’t contribute to my happiness? And after all, it’s all about me, right? Ha ha

So, you were wrong, what were you thinking…Really? Hmm… And exactly what did you accomplish by texting me in the first place?

Is there something in the air? Is it a full moon? Who’s next? What’s next?

Thanks for letting me vent.



{May 9, 2013}   Friends and ice cream

As Memorial Day Weekend gets closer and I get ready to head out west to Colorado, I am going to have to start to saying my goodbyes, not quite ready for that, but you have to start somewhere, right?

So, my wonderful friend, CKM is organizing a goodbye dinner, I hope you got an invite, I would love to see you there! Well, some of my friends can’t make it that night, so I working on making plans to see them before I leave. Not to worry, I will be back a few times, hey, I’m doing the Peachtree Road Race with CKM July 4th!

So, tonight, I had dinner with TS and SF, at a place that we love, The Loving Hut, http://www.lovinghut.us/ a vegan restaurant and most of my friends aren’t vegan or that into eating it, some have tried, just didn’t stick. Well, TS and SF and I love it, so meet for dinner we did! It was great, as always, the food that is, the service leaves A LOT to be desired! We had basil rolls, cha cha shrimp, it wasn’t as good as I’ve had it before, wonton soup (the only place I can get wonton soup!) and an eggplant dish. Yummy! We didn’t have dessert , they were out of coconut pie, we debated on dessert and the decision was made easy when they were out.

It figures they don’t have a location in Colorado, one hippy dippy state, but I’m sure I’ll be able to find a lot of vegetarian and vegan options, not worried.

Dinner was light and fun we caught up on each others lives, we laughed, we told stories, we bragged on our families, they let me dominate a lot of the conversation, imagine that, me with a lot to say! (I hope you didn’t doze off during my post about Annie!) I brought them up to speed on the packing, the staging, the moving, talking to the realtor, what my plans are, what the backup plans are, all the good stuff.

TS did look at me like I had three heads when I told them I bought the Disney Villains Monopoly! TS is the one who had to pack my collection, she didn’t really see an end in sight and then found a few more downstairs, I have a feeling that if she never sees another one it will be ok!
It was the Disney Villains people! And it was on sale, yes that helps!

It was nice when we parted company, there were no tears, it was as if we were just to dinner on a Thursday, “bye, see you later, love you” and we were gone. These are two women who like to travel, I believe I’ll be seeing them in my future!

I know, you’re salivating, where is the ice cream? Since we didn’t have dessert, I was craving something sweet. You may or may not know, but I am lactose intolerant, among other things. Beyers came out with a lactic free line of ice creams and while it is still touch and go for me, I bought some and tonight, as I sit here writing to you about my wonderful dinner with my fabulous friends, I had a bowl of ice cream with multicolored sugar crystals, yum.

So, the reason I mention friends and ice cream is because I had a wonderful experience at dinner and it was topped off by a bowl of ice cream, which makes me think of my friends because they are so sweet to and with me. And I wanted to tell you about both!

Thank to TS and SF for being my wonderful friends, I am so lucky to have you in my life to enrich it and make it more colorful. I love you very much.



{May 8, 2013}   Runaway Bride

Tonight, had a very fun evening.

In Atlanta, we have some dinner and a movie theaters, I know they have them around the country, in Atlanta we have three, well, three that I know about. One of them is the Studio Movie Grill and they opened one not too far from me, which is nice, the closest one before was about 40/45 minutes away, right around the corner from TS, which was great to go see a movie, even better for her, but I now have one about 25 minutes from me!

One of the things they do is “girls night” or special movie screenings, like classic flicks for $1, tonight was “Put on your running shoes and get ready for girls night with Runaway Bride”… For one dollar!

(Iron Man 3 was playing in one of the adjoining theaters, the sound travels so much and the acoustics are something else, that during the movie, you could feel the theater next to us. To make it up to us, we all got a free movie pass for anytime before 12.31.14, I think we can handle that!)

CKM and I met for dinner before,yes, I know we could have eaten there, we just decided on something else, On The Border. We sat outside,the weather finally becoming beautiful and it was nice, except for the guy who was smoking, on and off, you’d think you couldn’t do that, even though its outside seating because it wafts…

We got to the theater just in time to get our tickets and rush to the bathroom and get to our seats.

It’s fun to see an older movie on the big screen, I’m going to have that at my house one day, when my house grows up. Can I call a movie a classic it it only came out in 1999! What? Doesn’t seem that long ago!

What a fun movie, a second pairing for Richard Gere, Julia Roberts with supporting cast Hector Elizondo, all three having been in Pretty Woman, of course, Gary Marshall had a small cameo, just like in the other films he directs.

For those of you not in the know, Runaway Bride is about Maggie Carpenter, the Runaway Bride, who has walked down the isle three times, never quite making it to the “I Do’s” is about to try it again for the fourth time, with her fiancé played by Chris Melonie, of Law & Order.:SVU fame. Ike Graham is the reporter who exposes her, her story dirty minds! And after getting fired by his ex-wife/editor, played by Rita Wilson, he goes to Hale, MD to uncover the truth about Maggie. As her dad, played by Paul Dooley jokes, “Maggie may not be Hale’s longest running joke, she certainly the fastest!

The cast is rounded out by Joan Cusack, Maggie’s best friend, Peggy Flemming, not the figure skater, Laurie Metcalf is Mrs Trout, local baker.

It’s fun to watch the movie and realize how much things have changed. Remember cell phones that were clunky and had the antennae that you had to pull up? Using post its for notes instead of setting up a message on your smart phone? Personal camcorders were bigger than your hand, VCRs, cassette tapes were still pretty predominant.

This movie is touching, sweet, sad, funny, uncomfortable, will have you rooting for the underdog. You realize that Richard Gere really does have a great head of hair and a Julia Roberts does have a million mega watt smile. Joan Cusack is such an amazing, underestimated, comic talent, Chris Meloni was great, a happy go lucky guy, such a far way from Det. Stabler on L&O:SVU, it was fun.

There were some great one liners, laughter, emotions up, emotions down. The point? You have to enjoy yourself,me happy and don’t let people pressure you into anything you’re not ready to do!

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Tonight, I want to tell you about Annie, my VW Beetle Convertible. I love this car and for those of you who don’t know me, don’t really understand when I say I love my car, I la la la love my car! I plan to be buried in it!

Tonight’s posts will be happy, sad, then happy again.

I have loved beetles since I was a kid, one of my day’s first cars was a beetle and bringing home my sister from the hospital, a green beetle bug. I remember sleeping on the back shelf at the drive in (and daddy, if I have imagined any of this, please don’t burst my bubble!)

I have wanted a beetle for the longest time and hoped, but didn’t think it would happen. My dream car…a triple white (white top, white interior, white exterior), I just love a VW.

When it was time to retire the go-cart, my white Mitsubishi Mirage, I went to a dealership looking for another one, they didn’t have one, so I said, how about a Cabriolet, they didn’t have one of those, but they did have a red convertible beetle, did I want to try it? Um…how fast can a head spin?

I test drove it, it was an automatic and I’d been driving a manual, but it was a beautiful car, smooth ride, red exterior, black top and tan interior, perfection! I didn’t want to get out of the car, I knew what I wanted so the search began.

When the new beetles came out back in the late 90s, I said I wanted to wait, first, until there was a convertible and there were issues with the car, so I would wait until they worked the bugs out, ha ha.

After a long time, in August of 2003, I first met Annie. Jim Ellis VW was the dealership, Miles was the sales guy. I have to tell you, I went to another dealership closer to home and the sales guy, didn’t like him, he kept trying to be sneaky…guess what he was doing the next time I was at that dealership…in the parts department.

Went in with what I wanted to pay, all my questions and ready to purchase. Miles wanted to talk about the mirrors, I wanted to hear the stereo, it was a Monsoon, very good stereo and sound system. I wanted it, I wanted it, I wanted it!

August 18, 2003, I signed the paperwork for a brand new 2004 VW Beetle Convertible! She was in the middle of the showroom and she was all mine. They opened the doors and I drove out! I drove out of the showroom, I couldn’t believe it!

I think I may have had one of the first convertibles, let alone red ones in the state. I would get people waving at me, honking, telling me how pretty she was, even after 5 years “Is she new?” “My mom likes your car!” I took such good care of her, had someone come to my house every other week to wash her, inside and out! I babied this car! If you are ever in my car, you might be tired before you get to the store, I park way, way, way out there, where it’s less likely someone is going to park next to my car!

She’s a good car, cute, has pickup and attitude! Hmmm..kind of like, oh I don’t know, me! I say this as I laugh because one night I was out to dinner with friends and we went around the table to describe ourselves like our cars…small, compact, curvy and fun!

I love to drop the top, crank the music, sometimes until the mirrors shake, drive and just live in the moment and love life. How can it be bad if you have the sun above, maybe the stars, the wind in your face? In the fall, crank the heat, put on a sweater, sounds good to me! I remember thinking during some very difficult times, there is nothing wrong, I am in my car and all is right with the world.

I haven been driving a beetle convertible for over ten years and most days when I get in, I still say “I LOVE THIS CAR, I LOVE DRIVING THIS CAR!” I can’t imagine myself without a beetle convertible.

Ok, so we had fun and happy, here is where the sad comes in. September of 2010, I was on my way to work and involved in a fender bender, she caught on fire, yes, I said fire… The entire story is below, I don’t want to repeat myself.

Sad time is over, on to happy. A few months later, I found a red Chrysler Sebring convertible, black top, black interior, what are the odds? It was a great car, but not the same, never felt the same and t was like driving a land yacht! With a beetle, you park in a space, there’s a mile in front and back, Sebring, not so much! But I was happy and never stopped looking to replace Annie.

Well, one year ago this month, Memorial Day weekend, to be exact, I purchased Annie II! It was one of the hardest searches ever! Lets just say, trying to find a 5speed is near impossible, especially in the color scheme I wanted, yes, red with black top. After an exhaustive search, I now have a red convertible beetle with black top, black interior and heated seats!

I know this is a super long post, but I love my car and if I don’t stop, you’ll be here all night! Thank you for letting me talk about my car, she treats me right and I treat her right! If you see a red beetle bug and a person bouncing up and down in the drivers seat, guess who!

The reason I was inspired to write about Annie tonight was when I was coming out of the grocery store tonight, I was looking at her and struck by how perfect she is, how much I love her and what she means and represents to me. Some of it may seem shallow, all about a car, but it is so much more than that to me.

Here is the story of what happened that fateful day (the picture below is not pleasant):

Tuesday morning, I was on my way to work, Ronald Reagan Parkway for those of you in the know and the person in front of me stopped, I did not stop in time, engaged the brakes, but still rear-ended him. The airbags deployed and then there were flames.

I got out of the car in plenty of time, grabbed my laptop bag, but my phone, my poor wonderful Droid, was not so lucky. I exited the car and watched the flames get higher and higher and higher and eventually… a big ball of orange with black flames that climed high into the sky.
Captain Carl or Herb, my apologies to the traffic dude… announced there was a Car-B-Q on Ronald Reagan Parkway that morning [and I thought I had coined a phrase of my own] and to take an alternate route.

I watched the fire fighters put out the fire and the tow truck operater load what was left of my be-be onto his flatbed and shovel the charred remnants onto the truck, then drive away.

I was able to call someone by searching my work e-mails for auto-signatures with cell phone numbers, realizing just how dependent we are on our cell phones!

I got to work eventually and heard about a lot of people who were late to work because of me, I was famous. When they found out it was me, I think they took back the things they grumbled about having to detour. I publically apologize to anyone who I knew I’d made late, I felt really bad!

So…I have MILD whiplash, which is getting better every day, I only took a muscle relaxer the first night, was not fully functional the next day, so no more of those.

The next day, while speaking with the adjustor, he asked me if she had heated seats, I said “well, yesterday she did”. I get to make jokes.

So, in closing, I am 100% fine, my car, sadly is not. Annie was such a great car, many happy memories, I still remember the day I brought her home, August 18, 2003, they opend the Jim Ellis show room doors and we drove out. She just passed 116,000 miles and had had a service completed. We all know how particular I am about where I park, even one of the firefighters said she looked brand new, as she was going up in flames. I got at least two complitments on her condition every month, a very proud momma!

Goodbye Annie. I will treasure you forever.

Bye Bye Annie

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{May 6, 2013}   Ahh…What a Mechia

I just took a shower and I feel so much better, it was a mechia.

A mechia is a Yiddish word that means ‘a great feeling, a relief’. An ice cold coca cola, especially in a little glass bottle, on a very hot day, the feel of the air conditioning turning on that same hot day, warm chicken noodle soup when you feel like crud, a mechia.

Since I work from home all day, not going anywhere that I need to dress for and I haven’t been running in the morning lately and packing in the afternoons and evenings, I have been taking showers at night, to wash off the dust and dirt from picking up, wrapping, packing and moving boxes. I wash my hands many times during the day, but until I get to take that shower, it always feels like there is a layer of grime, especially on my hands, eeeew.

And, since we’ve been having all this rain for the last, oh I don’t know, thousand days…it’s been cold, so when I got dressed, leggings, long sleeve jersey and fuzzy slipper socks (a mechia for the warm and fuzzies) what? It’s May! It’s been raining for over a week, we’ve had tropical depression warnings, flash flood warnings and hail war innings, what? On the other hand…no problems with my allergies, no sneezing, among other things, now, that…is a mechia!

For those of you who don’t know, Yiddish is a slang, cross between Hebrew and German. The cool thing about Yiddish is that no matter where you go, when you meet another Jewish person, whatever language they speak, you should be able to communicate, a bissle, or a little. It’s also what parents will use when they don’t want their kids to know what they are saying, kind of like when your parents spell because they don’t want you to know what they’re saying. That works until you can spell!

The last time I was in Boston with the family, I spelled something for MG’s ears and EJ decided to tell me what I spelled. I said I was doing that for MG. Oh…

I bet you know more Yiddish than you realize, you might say, “I have to schlep all this stuff” it means to drag things around, like on vacation, having to schlep around twelve guidebooks. Ever say or hear someone say “oh vey”, I bet you have! That’s Yiddish. A schmuck is someone you might refer to as a self made fool, but by definition, not a word to be used in polite company…it really refers to a male’s anatomy!

If you watch any Mel Brooks movie, you’re going to pick up something, it’s great when it’s so subtle!

Here are “40 Words You Should Know”, I beg you’ll be surprised!

The Yiddish Handbook: 40 Words You Should Know

I’m sitting bed, with two cats curled up around me, I’ve got warm blankets, my feet are off the floor and don’t have to go back there until tomorrow, now that is a mechia.



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